I'm The Custodial Parent... Can My Ex-Spouse Prevent me From Moving?

No. You (the "Relocating Party ") are free to move anywhere you want. However, if your ex (or any other individual with court-ordered custody or visitation rights) (the "Non-relocating Party") objects to the children's relocation, you will need the Court's approval to take the children with you.

The Relocation Statute

Pursuant to Indiana Code 31-17-2.2, any Relocating Party who has or is seeking custody or parenting time must give written notice (the "Notice") of his or her intention to relocate: 1) to the Court with jurisdiction over the children and 2) to the Non-relocating Party. Notice must be sent by Certified Mail and must contain all of the information set forth in the statute. These requirements apply to both custodial and non-custodial parents regardless of whether they are moving across the country or across the street! The required information includes, among other things, the following:

A. The new address and telephone number.

B. The statement of the reasons for the proposed relocation.

C. A proposal for a revised schedule of parenting time.

D. A statement informing the Non-relocating Party that any objection to the children's relocation must be filed within sixty (60) days after receipt of the Notice, and

E. A statement informing the Non-relocating Party that they may file a petition to modify a custody order, parenting time order, grandparent visitation order, or child support order.

What Happens If The Non-Relocating Party Doesn't Object

If the Non-relocating Party fails to file an objection within sixty (60) days of receiving the Notice, the Relocating Party may move and the current custody, parenting time and child support orders will remain in place.

What Happens If The Non-Relocating Party Objects?

Within sixty (60) days of receiving a Notice, the Non-relocating Party may file a motion seeking a temporary or permanent order to prevent the relocation of a child and/or a petition to modify the existing custody, parenting time, child support or grandparent visitation orders. Objections are rarely filed unless the relocation will take the child a significant distance away from the Non-relocating Party. If the Non-relocating Party files such a motion and requests a hearing, the Court will set a date for a full evidentiary hearing.

Initially, the Relocating Party must show that the intended move is being made in good faith and for a good reason. An example of a "good" reason to move a child away from the Non-relocating Party might be a better job opportunity that will significantly increase the child's standard of living. An example of a "not so good" reason might be a desire to move in with a new significant other. Some courts have even ruled that a desire to move closer to one's parents is not a good reason for taking a child away from one of HIS parents. If the relocating parent intends to move for a "not so good" reason, then the children will not be permitted to relocate.

If the Relocating Party proves that the relocation is being made in good faith and for a good reason, then the burden of proof switches to the Non-relocating Party, who must show that the relocation will not be in the child's best interests. This evidence may include proof that:

A. The child has significant ties with the Non-relocating Party that cannot be maintained if the child moves,

B. The child has significant ties with other family members that cannot be maintained if the child moves,

C. The child has significant ties in the community, school, or church, that are in the child's best interests and cannot be maintained if the child moves,

D. The Relocating Party has a pattern of attempting to alienate the child from the Non-relocating Party,

E. The benefit of any pay increase is lost because of the increased living expenses in the new city,

F. The benefit of any pay increase is lost because of a decrease in child support and increased expenses associated with transportation for parenting time.

G. Schools in the new city do not compare well with the schools where child

H. The new city may have more crime or juvenile delinquency as shown by a comparison of police reports.

After all the evidence is admitted, the Court must weigh the statutory factors normally considered in a change of custody - in addition to the factors associated with the move itself. The Court will then render a decision as to whether the relocation is or is not in the child's best interests. If the relocation is not in the child's best interests, the non-relocating party will be awarded custody and the parenting time and child support orders will be appropriately modified.

Should I Reconsider a Move?

Probably - A move across town is not likely to result in an objection. However, while your ex-spouse cannot prevent you from moving, any custodial parent contemplating a long-distance move away from an involved non-custodial parent should think long and hard before making that decision. The risks of losing custody are high in a relocation case, and the cost of litigation is expensive. Worse yet, regardless of the outcome, parents frequently lose the ability to co-parent following a relocation litigation. You should talk to an attorney before you make this decision. You should also talk to the Non-relocating Party to find out if he or she would object to the move. Please note, however, that you must file the Notice even if the non-relocating parent has no objection.

In the long run, the real loser in a litigated relocation case is the child who will be separated for long periods of time from one or the other of the two most important people in his or her life. That fact is the one to reconsider.

Can I Reduce the Likelihood of Litigation If a Move Is Mandatory?

Yes - If you determine that your relocation is absolutely mandatory, there are a number of things you can do that might reduce or eliminate the need for litigation. Here are some examples:

A. Acknowledge to yourself that the Non-relocating Party (assume that we are talking about the noncustodial parent) is every bit as important to your child as you are.

B. Figure out in advance all the ways you can keep your child connected to the Non-relocating Party if the child relocates with you. Be sure you offer the same parenting time schedule you would want for yourself if the Non-Relocating Party wins custody. For instance, some of the things you might do to stay connected would include:

I) Arranging Skype conversations at a set time every day.

II) Creating a parenting time calendar that results in the same number of overnights currently being exercised (such as longer summer or Christmas parenting time, every Spring Break, or long weekend visits for every Monday or Friday Holiday).

C. Plan on paying a greater share of transportation costs or reducing the child support obligation since the relocation benefits you.

D. Do not file a Notice of Intent to Relocate without first having a private conversation with the Non-relocating Party.

E. Acknowledge to the Non-relocating Party that he/she is every bit as important to the child as you are.

F. Show the Non-relocating Party all the ways he/she can stay connected to the child if you move and then ASK for cooperate in the relocation effort.

G. Show the Non-relocating Party all the ways you would want to stay connected to the child if the Court awards custody to the Non-relocating Party.

H. Don't "assume" you will win. That assumption will almost certainly prevent you from negotiating a good outcome.

If you have questions about Grandparent Rights and Grandparent Visitation, contact Carol Jean Romine at 317-773-5997. Based in Noblesville, Indiana, Ms. Romine is a Family Law Attorney-Mediator. She has focused her energies on helping people divorce with dignity and has kept the majority of her clients out of court. Visit http://www.familylawfishersindiana.com/ for more info.

How You Can Help to Prevent Nursing Home Negligence?

Old age homes and organizations that promise to take care of your loved ones when they are aged help to provide their inmates with good living facilities and all the amenities they will require for a comfortable and peaceful living in their old age. They will be with people of their own age and can spend many hours in the company of the same kind of people. But according to well known California nursing home abuse lawyers, what you see not is what you usually get at these centers that promise such fancy facilities.

Even though they promise great surroundings and excellent care and love, the truth is that all this is rarely given. Many of these so called care centers are interested only in making money. They charge the inmates a lot of money and then do not provide them with the care and attention that they were promised in the beginning. This is a very serious offence and it cannot go unattended. It is very sad to know that a lot of these institutions are running like businesses and making money off of the innocent and helpless aged citizens. This is where good natured and genuine Las Vegas nursing home abuse lawyers come into the picture. They will be able to assess if your loved ones are being treated properly or not. You can boldly approach them and can tell them of what your loved ones are going through. These professionals will take up your case and help you fight the injustice that was done to the aged people.

Experienced and professional law practitioners

The renowned elder abuse attorneys in San Diego are known for the number of years they have been practicing for. They have firms that have been in practice for a very long time. Over the past many years they have helped many grieved families to get justice for the way their loved ones have been treated by these so called care centers. Nursing home abuse attorneys in Las Vegas are known for helping many families fight their battles against these care centers that have cheated them. You also can get justice.

Committed professionals

These professional nursing home negligence attorneys are not just here to help you fight your case. They have a genuine interest in helping to wipe out this sort of mistreatment and violence that is targeted at the inmates in these care centers. These professionals are genuinely interested. You can help them fight their battle against these centers by reporting anything that goes against the Las Vegas elder abuse law.

Keeping them safe

Every life is just as valuable as another one. You should understand that people need to live in comfort when they are aged and old. They too should have their dignity. So if you happen to notice any signs of ill treatment or manipulation, you should immediately report this matter to a nursing home negligence attorney. You can do your part in helping to keep the aged citizens safe and comfortable.

Crucial Points that Can Prevent Visitation Rights for Fathers

It is often depressing and traumatizing for a father to keep battling for a custody right he should normally be entitled to; particularly, if he has just been through a legal battle in a divorce recently. A visitation right for fathers is always at issue and is often a fierce fight for fathers who wish not to relinquish a bond with their child. Father's custody is always looked at with some degree of bias or prejudice no matter how much we talk about equality in our society.

When a father becomes a parent it often dawns upon him that the 'self' should turn towards selflessness. It is crucial for society to understand that both mother and father have a very important and vital role in a child's psycho-social development. Often visitation rights for fathers are denied in courts of law. Not only are the denied father's custody, they either end up being bankrupt or an emotional basket-case due to trauma and expense they incur during the legal proceedings.

Here is a partial list of things that can prevent one from getting visitation rights for fathers:

Paternity: It is not too difficult to prove one's paternity in court; however, many fathers do not take to time to obtain a judicial order and run the risk of not having appropriate rights when the time requires it.Father-child relationship: In cases where a fathers file in court to obtain their visitation rights for fathers, the court looks at the relationship the child has with the father as part of the process in determining access to the child. The court is, most often, pro-mother, so, a father must be prepared.Mother-child relationship: Because of the court's pro-mother bias the court more often does not give a father what he deserves regarding time with the children and, upon modification of an order, is very reluctant to change the custody of the child unless the mother is found to be totally unfit.Absence of father from child's life: If the father has been away from his child for a very long time, the child might not be able to accept him as a father immediately and easily. This is usually due to the alienation that the Mother has perpetrated in the case; the children against the father.Unable to pay child support: If a father has been unable to pay child support, it can often serve as a major factor in the court's decision regarding father's custody. Visitation and custody are supposed to be, by law, mutually exclusive.

While fighting a legal battle you should be able to communicate with your kids with phone calls and regular contact. Once you are able to prove paternity you can apply for permanent orders regarding a parenting plan and/or child support. Once it's a proven fact that you are the father of the child you are deemed to be responsible for the child and are also granted visitation rights. Also, it is always a good idea to work with the X, if possible, in order to maintain a peaceful and healthy environment around the child. Remember, a cordial environment is very necessary for your child's development.

Author Bio: Alick Anderson is experienced lawyer and has several years of experience in father's rights and child support modification. He writes articles on father's rights, Father Custody , Visitation rights for fathers etc. Rate this Article

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